Work on Your Appearance
You never know where and when life will bring you face to face with the girl who will blow your mind. So, here’s a tip: always try to look your best. No, you can wear old, stretched-out sweatpants at home and take out the trash in sportswear, an old polo, and sandals with socks. We’re talking about something else. When you venture out, especially to bustling places like senior chat rooms, take care of your appearance. This doesn’t mean you need to don your finest trousers, a meticulously ironed premium cotton shirt, and a jacket on top. It’s sufficient to be clean and tidy. Your favorite jeans, a t-shirt or hoodie will do just fine. Pair them with clean sneakers and groomed hair, and that’s it
Choose the Place
It’s better not to look for acquaintances on the main streets of the city, where people are in a hurry on their business. Most likely, she will be in a hurry too, so talking won’t work out. And the probability that she will give you her phone number right after the greeting is close to zero.
Prepare Basic Phrases
Improvisation is cool, of course, but it’s better if you know in advance how to fill in the pauses. Prepare a few universal jokes so that during an awkward silence, you have something to fill it with. But remember: one inappropriate phrase, and she will already be thinking about how to get away quickly. Try to be positive, speak confidently, avoid rambling, and don’t be boring. Don’t know what to say? Those pre-prepared jokes will save the situation. We’re sure of it.
Be Ready to Continue the Conversation
The most nerve-wracking part is over? You’ve successfully started a conversation with a stranger, shown all your ingenuity, and found a suitable topic to interest her. And finally, she gave you her phone number. Victory! Now the easy part: you need to text her on a messenger or call her. Which is better? Usually, it’s easier to communicate online. But if she really likes you, a live conversation will be more pleasant than texting. So take your smartphone and call. Ideally, the next day. Just don’t do it early in the morning or late at night. What to say? If you’re not sure, you can watch videos from popular coaches. They’ll teach you to feel more confident and tell you how to start a conversation with a girl correctly. So, have you studied all the points? Ready to act?
